Sunday, October 25, 2009
Saturday Night
So Bailey started her day out about 9:00 am, not unusual but she was at the Ranch with Grandmwah and PawPaw. She did not take a nap at all, I'm talking like nothing, zilch, nada, zero, nine, NONE all day. We got in the car to go to dinner and she finally fell asleep right before we got there, this is already almost 6:00 PM. (I don't consider this a nap even though she woke up shortly after b/c this should have been her bed time that day) Anyway, she woke up, we ate dinner, we went to Walmart, we drove back (with Bailey crying and screaming the whole way) to the Ranch and it all went wacky from there.
Bailey was SO excited to be back. We put her on the floor with the new puppy Fiona and they rolled around licking eachother for a few minutes, both being a little weird. Then Bailey got up and was just running everywhere. She is still new to the WALKING thing so running was a site to see. She would throw her arms behind her making her look very arrow dynamic and just start going. This would cause her to fall several times and since at this points she is very tired and out of sorts, she would try to get up but it resultred in a lot of time with her head by the ground and her butt all up in the air. I was laughing so hard to see her spinning in all sorts of circles, almost break dancing and doing barrel rolls all at the same time.
This went on for a good 15 minutes or so, she was more hyper than I have ever seen her to this point. She was so excited about something though, calming down was not inher plans. Changing her diaper was like roping a calf, I was sweaty by the end of that adventure.
Anyway, all that to say, it was interesting. We are still experiencing new things all the time with that girl. I'm sure there will be many more stories to come.
Friday, October 9, 2009
Walk it out!
Bailey has decided that today is the day she wants to walk instead of crawl. She still has a ton of plops but she instead of crawling, she gets back up and takes more steps still it happens again. She is a goofy little tyke and we love her. Hope this is funny too you, sorry about the hysterical laugh in the background. I'm a mom and I think my kid is awesome.
Sunday, October 4, 2009
snuggle time
Bailey is turing one at the end of the month and with that time approaching so quickly, I'm having to pinch myself, I'm in denial that it really could have been a year ago since this all went down.
So Bailey is back to her normal self, feeling well and definitely NOT snuggling anymore. She is walking more and more everyday, exploring new things and making me laugh A LOT. Yes, I realize I have been using a lot of caps lock in this post but hey, I'm SO emphatic about these things.
Monday, September 28, 2009
50 years!
Happy life of Marrige Grandma and Grandpa!! (it's been longer than 50 years now so I can say that to encompass the last few days as well)
I'm having a hard time imagining what I may be like in 25 years when I hit my 50th birthday or what Josh and I will be like in 46 years at our 50th anniversary but I pray that it is something great. I hope our story is one that not only looks good to our kids and grandkids but to those we see and interact with on a day to day basis. I pray that our marriage points people to Christ and that we model to those we meet what Holy Matrimony is. We fail, and horribly at times but by Gods grace we get back up and I hope our legacy shares that story as well.
Sunday, September 13, 2009
Weekend Fun
Saturday night..... I worked till 3:15, Josh worked till 10, I napped, we went to pick up Bailey from my parents real late.
Sunday.... invite a friend to church day, we brought Kassy and Corbit, they really seemed to enjoy themselves. Lunch was good, then we played ERS and the "word association game" ha ha. After that, we went to walmart, cooked dinner for my parents and hung out with them for a while.
Sucessfull weekend I would say.
Wednesday, September 9, 2009
Books Galore
I am also reading 3 other books right now, you know, one for the bathroom, one before bed and the other whenever I feel like it.
I am reading Grace gone Wild which I am enjoying. It's so far about Grace and not using it as a go a head and sin ticket, and it's not something we earn either... hard to explain with out being very far into the book.
Another book I am reading is Crazy Love. I started it a while back but now that our youth group is doing some sermon series based on it I figured I should pick it back up.
The third book is called Sexy Girls: How Hot is Too Hot? A good book to read when dealing with teenage girls. Is it OK to dress sexy? What is the difference in Sexy and Stylish and Attractive? These are questions we will be answering. I'm wondering if this is a book written by a man under a girls name.
I'm still loving my church, meeting new people all the time, getting to know some better than others but loving it nonetheless. I am getting to know the youth girls I am working with a little better and it's making things so much more fun. They are great and I really enjoy meeting with them as well as teaching them. We are high schoolers now and it's a whole new world. I say we because I moved up with these girls who were in 8th grade last year so we together have made the transition to High School and oh what a different world it is. I'm totally excited about it though and can't wait to REALLY get in with the girls. God is going to do some stinking radical things in their lives and I'm looking forward to all that may entail.
For those of you "keeping up with us" through this blog from far away places, we love you and miss you and I'm sorry I don't do a very good job at keeping you up to date and more a part of our everyday lives.
Ummm other news.... we are watching the Cosby show season one, disk two right now for fun. Josh and I have gotten to go one a few dates lately that have kept our love fresh and kickin'.
I have still been enjoying cooking although I have not blogged about any of that lately, my creative juices have not been bursting out as of late.
OK, I'm out!
Bye
Baby Baby
Sunday, August 23, 2009
Busy week

Tuesday, August 4, 2009
My stupid mouth....
I have great friends that are most patient for sure. Every time I hang up the phone or get done "chatting" with someone I feel it. I have once again dominated the conversation. I can't shut up. I want to be a good listener and to some degree I think I am but it must come across to other people as being a know it all and "she can't even wait till I'm done talking to say something else"
I am totally convicted by this.... Brenda, be quiet, let others speak, you will learn a lot. Brenda, be quiet, let God speak to you. Brenda, be quiet, listen and let others share their burdens. Brenda, shut your mouth and don't make this awkward, you don't know everything.
I've always been a talker. I can go on for days probably and I most likely sound stupid for the ways I can go around in circles, most likely contradicting myself at every bend.
This is not being mean to myself or feeling "condemned" but just a writen reminder to put others first, that even means in conversation. Be selfLESS, realize my stories aren't always the best ones. Let other's wisdom fall on me. Let me learn from lives of friends, parents, coworkers and the like.
The end.
Sunday, July 26, 2009
Games
Ok just kidding. This blog post is basically about games. As far as I can remember, I have always liked games, I used to play Mill Bornes at one grandparents house, yhatzee at another and Agrivation at my great grandparents house. Those are some very early childhood memories. Even now I like games, this week alone I got to play several. God has blessed Josh and I with friends that also enjoy games. Good clean fun. Today I played Hillarium, Things and Settlers of Catan. Josh played Snorta, Hit or Miss and Settlers of Catan. Earlier this week we played Taboo, monopoly, skip bo, Bust, and well does tickle fight count as a game? With an 8 month old I think so!!
So that was my blog, it's about games. I like games. So what if it sounds like a paragraph written by a 3rd grader on things she likes.
Good night.
Tuesday, July 7, 2009
Played Settle-ers tonight. Totally won the first game got clobbered the second time. I just feel bad beating people at their own games you know....Kidding, beginners luck I guess is what they call it.
Bailey came to visit me at work today. Well, Josh brought her in when he graced me with a drink from Sonic. She is beautiful and her smile brightens my day. She does new funny things like sniffing like a dog or something. I keep thinking she is trying to snot all over my face but Josh says its just being cute. Who knows... She also SCREAMS really really loudly. That part is not so cute as it is painful to the ear drums but still she's my daughter and I love her. How do you teach an 8 month old? What disciplines are too much? She's screaming in excitment most of the time and she doesn't know what an "inside voice" is.... hmmm I guess we'll be working on that.
OK I am out.
Monday, July 6, 2009
Monday
Let's join together and be transparent. That means see through, real, honest, open, genuine. All of the things that allow people to know who we are, where our shortcomings lie and how to best bear eachothers burdens.
I do not have a full grasp on how this works and I apparently have issues with these things as well.
Today I had no "Case of the Mondays". I stayed up late, I slept in, I was slow moving and it caused me to run late to where I needed to be. I triped a few times in my rush and I hit my head getting into the car. This is noone's fault but my own. And I guess the Wii is right... I am unbalanced and trip often while walking. DANG IT!
Sunday, July 5, 2009
This is bath time video.
Monday, June 29, 2009
Vacation
Sunday, June 28, 2009
How to Clean Your Computer
Monday, March 30, 2009
Culinary Creations
Friday, March 27, 2009
Culinary Creations
doesn't look so healthy. and I need to work on my plating ha ha.
Sunday, March 15, 2009
Culinary Chronicles
I tried to get creative with the plating. that's honey butter. I'm lame but I'm having fun!
I enjoy cooking and trying new things. Banana Bread is not a new thing for me but I felt like I needed something to take a picture of.
Life is good right now, its fun and I'm really enjoying my church stuff.I am very excited about the possibilities of the friendships that will form as well as the things I will continue learning. I'm totally enjoying God and the renewed feeling of getting to know Him. Ask me what I love about the book of Esther. It's a way to get me never to shut up ha.
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
Me love you long tim.
I NEVA LOSE!!!! (sometimes I just let Josh win)
Friday, March 6, 2009
Monday, March 2, 2009
Sunday, March 1, 2009
Boba tea otten totten
Wednesday, February 25, 2009
We have arrived!
Monday, February 23, 2009
12 yrs old.
Josh loved this and gave me mad props. Probably internal high fives and pats on the back, and his perverbial buttons were most likely popping off his shirt. He gets so excited when I am funny. This means I allow my husband to live a life of high excitment, because HELLO! I'm freakin funny.
Saturday, February 21, 2009
Oops!
You gotta think!
A question for all you blog readers out there...Suppose you were in a fast food resteraunt and your baby needed a diaper change in the worst way, we're talking pee (no poop) soaking through clothes kind of way. (are you fully in a suppose mental state now?) You check the bathroom for a place to change said wet baby and nothing is available. No changing table or area to lay and change baby. Is changing the baby at your table a huge no-no? That's the question by the way. Not on the table mind you, but just hanging in mid air from one parents arms while the other attempts to de-diaper-i-fy baby as quickly and modestly as possible. Is this ok given the lack of other options, or has a cardinal sin of sanitation been violated. (you can come out of your suppose mental state now, thank you for participating)Well anyway, another patron in the place had the nerve to not just mumble under her breath at her husband about this parents lack of couth (spelling?) but the audacity to come over and rather rudely in my opinion proceed to lecture us about how unsanitary we were being. Now, granted, she had a point, I can see that, but under the circumstances with our lack of options and the dire need for a diaper change we did what I thought we had to do. And, as I stated before she was not laying on the table or anything like that. The lady actually used phrases like "that is SO unsanitary", and "don't you know you are embarassing your baby?", and my favorite that actually made me mad and had me cut her short and dismiss her somewhat more loudly and firmly than I my usual laid back self was, "You've got to think!". That one did it for me. Like I said, I could see her point and even admitted to her that she was right, it wasn't the most sanitary thing to be doing but when someone is rude and making a scene unecessarily, that's when I get a little hot and bothered.Anyway, I guess I just needed to vent and humbly ask as a first time dad if I have really just broken a public rule of sanitation. Thoughts?
So that was that....
Bailey is a roller now. Front to back and back to front. This is just as of a few days ago. Tried to get it on camera but memory card got full waiting for nothing to happen. As of today, she is grabbing things and putting them all in her mouth. She's a chewer and a sucker. Oh the little joys of progression from babydom to, whatever naturally comes next. We are in the process of getting internet in our home YAY!
Umm other than that, my sister was held up at gun point at the bank she works in yesterday. I can not imagine this scenario and how it would emotionally affect one. I also work in the same bank company and with so many robberies this becomes scary to me.
Speaking of scary and fear, Did you know that the number one most used command in the Bible is " Do not be afraid" or, "have no fear"? I learned this in my bible study Thursday night. This study about Esther is great. She had a great little acronym for the word "if". When we live by what ifs and if this happens and so forth the if can stand for "I FEAR". God asks us to share with him our fears and its not enough just to trust him that he will not allow these fearful things to happen to us. He says tell me your fears and let them not control you anymore. We can tell God our fears and we say if _______ happens then___________. And God says then what? how would you finish this statement? What is the worst case scenario? God wants us to face our fears by giving him the WORST CASE scenario and He will be God.... "If Josh were to die and leave me to raise our children alone" God asks "Then what?"
Me: "I would be devestated and shut down."
God: "Then what?"
Me: "I would probably skip some meals beacuse of anguish and be sick to my stomach"
God: "Then what?"
Me: "I would lock myself in a room for a while sobbing loudly."
God:" Then what?"
Me: "I would find myself flat on the ground screaming some "WHY?"s."
God: "Then what?"
Me:" I would end up with a Gods word falling all over the back of my head as I lay there, whispering to me His love."
God: "Then what?"
Me: "I would get up and get back to being a mom, being a leader, being whatever I needed to be. I would be hurting at times but I would get up. I would sing praises and worship God with all that's in me."
I am not exactly sure what would happen but I picture some of this being how it would go. God is saying "If Josh dies, then ME?" If_______ happens, then God.
As women we live with lots of fears, these can keep us from accomlishing our dreams. There is a quote that says " We may die a thousand deaths fearing the one" Let our fears be overtaken by confidence in the Lord. We were dead in our transgressions, we were dead when Chrsit saved us from the grave. Lets live as if already dead. Not meaning being foolish but without leting fears hold us back from being couragous and living out our destiny that Christ has set before us.
Interesting how I am typing this and the rich mullens song is playing in my right ear. "Hold me Jesus because i am shaking like a leaf. You have been king of my glory, won't you be my prince of peace." I love that!
Lets live with the peace and the courage of Christ to accomplish our daily tasks and to have victory in hard times, all to give glory to God.
I'm a rambler but it's on my heart and it's now on computer. I'll leave with that I suppose. If you're a reader, be encouraged. Love you!
Monday, February 16, 2009
The kick-off
So I'm starting off today and this is where I am... My day has been a little hectic. One of our cars broke down yesterday so today it's in the shop. The estimate, outrageous. What do you do though when you know nothing about cars and you don't have a way to make the week work with only one vehicle. Bailey was screaming much of the afternoon, enought that made getting online at the club house impossible b/c seriously who wants to have the screaming baby while others are trying to get updated on their myspace lives. So I put her in the car and drove to Target, here I shopped my little brain out but only bought a few things, bottles for Bayster (Bailey's nickname from time to time, is it bad) and I got some things for Josh, Ipod accesories. Mostly to show him that I care about his hobbies. Music is his passion and I want to share that with him, so I got some headphone splitters and another set of buds.
I also bought the movie Music and Lyrics b/c Josh likes it. It's about music. It's got some deepness to parts of it as well.
We're struggling a little right now with some organization and we are trying to get things under control. I feel like we're far from "there" where is there? Anyway, We have no internet access at home, YET. Hopefully we're caving in this week but we're having to set some boundaries on time b/c time management is something that I don't do to well with. I am ready for the convienince but not the money... AHHHH got to go, I'm at my moms and she needs to do homework. Peace out, for the first time. BYe