Monday, October 17, 2011
Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
OK so I am only half serious.
I have been at my parent's farm for a week now with the kids. We are in the transitional stage of moving to Florida. Josh is already there and working hard and playing hard and enjoying the life of a bachelor again for a little while. Not a bachelor like you see in movies, just a man not tied down by bed times and not awoken by kids eager for his attention.
I am in a struggle because my kids are out of their routine, we are in yet another new place, and dad/husband is away.
That's enough of that...
In church yesterday (My parent's church) we had a guest speaker who spoke mostly about missions but really challenged the grandparents in the congregation. I had never really heard a speaker have his biggest charge be to the "old folks". He challenged the grandparents to not only be willing to release their children and grandchildren into the work of the Lord but to bless them as they go. He comes from a background where his mother and father were missionaries, his father's parents blessed their ministry but his mother's father never did. He spoke of the burden his mom carried of her dad not blessing her ministry of 37 years. 37 YEARS of struggle knowing you are doing the work of your capital "F" Father and your earthly dad not being on board with it. As females (and probably males but since I am not one I don't know) we long for not only the approval but the blessing of our parents. We don't just want to hear "it's OK, go ahead." we want prayers, support, verbal and non verbal affirmation. As the speaker gave a charge to the grandparents in the room he closed with asking the grandparents willing to bless their grandchildren if and when doing the Lords work to stand up. My heart swelled with joy as my parents both stood to their feet. They will strive to be enablers instead of roadblocks for their grand kids (all 10 of them as of now) to further the kingdom of God. I'm not going to lie... at that moment I felt more affirmation than I probably ever have from my parents over the work we are doing as a family and even as a woman in choosing the man I am married to. One non-verbal stance (pun intended) encouraged my heart to keep doing what we are doing. My folks not understand some of the things we have chosen to do because it doesn't make a whole lot of logical sense, to us or them, but we are confident knowing that we have been walking by faith and taking steps of obedience toward an unknown goal. That's tough stuff. Just recently God has been allowing us to see more of the picture and where the little things really were part of the big picture process.
As a mom I pray regularly for the salvation of my children and I teach them obedience not only to me but to God and His word. Josh and I have named our kids after families that imitate Christ and have also followed in obedience when it wasn't the easy or the socially acceptable thing to do.
Our daughter, Bailey, was named after David and Kandi Bailey. We met them and their 5 kids while serving at Blanton Baptist Church in Dade City Florida. The Bailey's are a blessed family and even when life is tough, their hearts are pure and their attitudes exude joy. They are also a giving family. They give even when it hurts. Even when the world would say "Hang on to that! Cherish it and don't let it slip away!" They freely and gladly give. They are great stewards of what God has intrusted them with. This is what we want for our kids!
Frazier's name comes from Andy and Kim Frazier. When we met them, Andy was a youth pastor at Dade City Christian Church and it was awesome to find another young couple in the ministry, especially in a town with not many "young people". We were set up on a blind date type thing. Kim was pregnant with her first child Hannah. They were great mentors for us and a great example of a Godly marriage. They were just a step ahead of us being married 3 years prior to us and we got to walk along side of them as they birthed babies and grew in ministry and parenthood. We gleaned wisdom from thier successes and mistakes. Andy and Kim serve well in whatever capacity they are working. They are hard working and faithful, they also have generous hearts. Andy is tech saavy and Kim is frugal, both are fun! Our type of people. This is what we want for our kids.
We will encourage our children to listen to their Father and be obedient, even if it goes against what we have "planned" for them. We also know that their grandparents will encourage them the same way. Praise God.
Now let's see how this shows up not only when they are serving the Lord but in the preparing them to do so.
May we also encourage or spur one another on towards excellence, pointing all glory to Him.
Wednesday, October 5, 2011
B words
Monday, July 25, 2011
Today, One Day at a Time
Tuesday, July 5, 2011
Friday, January 21, 2011
Hijacked
Sunday, July 11, 2010
And I'm baaack!
Ok so the news, I am 20 weeks and 3 days pregnant with a little boy. His name is Frazier Lee Balogh. We are all very excited about this new member of our family and it's very fun to watch Bailey realizing that she is going to be a big sister. She however can't pronounce Frazier well so it comes out "shaver". Bailey loves to kiss my belly and say "mor-win shaver" translated, "morning Frazier"
Bailey is 20 months old and a total joy to be around. She is spunky and funny and full of energy. She has some Sass and is girly girl. Her very favorite things to do are talk on the "phone" I put phone is quotes b/c she will use anything from a marker to a cracker wrapper, to her hand as a communication device. She LOVES to read and will do so for over an hour a day. She also loves music and dancing. Her new love in the last 2 weeks is swimming and she will willingly put her own head underwater over and over and over.
Bailey is extremely good at recognizing people and remembering their names.
Ok that's the update for now, I am going to try to keep these shorter and and more frequent. Love yall!
Wednesday, March 17, 2010
Who knew Big Rats Were Fun?
Friday, February 12, 2010
Week 2
first was sliding in the living room.
next was pretending to be on a space ship (they thought it was first class with the drinks and all)
All of the girls did SOO well at helping spread the sauce-)
Finished product: Italian Chicken Pizza! YUM!
Too bad when the kids get to eat it it looks a little more like this.
Oh well, they REALLY enjoyed it. Epecially since it was movie and pizza. We ate dinner and watched Hoodwinked, a great movie.
The only sad thing is, after dinner they didn't get to REALLY enjoy desert at all, this is what it looked like but the taste.... was not worth eating. We looked at these great looking cinnamon bite rolly things but didn't eat them.=(
Hope you enjoy plugging in with your imagination all of the funny things that happened in between all of these snapshots. Kelly, thanks for letting me borrow your ladies for a few days, it really has been a joy. I love yall!
Saturday, January 30, 2010
Very New Chapter
I have begun a very new chapter in my life. I am officially a Home Maker by profession. AAAHHHH. what a very exciting time for me.
Today was my first day not being employed but at the same time, today is Saturday so I just took it as a real Saturday. I used to work every Saturday but today I made it a point to stay in my PJs almost all day, hang around the house and get done the things I "wanted" to get done. No pressure, just a Saturday.
I have been doing some research on ways to save money from the home and creative things to do with out spending money as well as getting some things organized around here so I am not spending my days working around the mess. I've got goals, I've got timelines, I've got menus, I've got books to read, I've got things to do by golly!!!
I am very excited about the changes taking place in the Texas Balogh's lives, hopefully I will remember to chronicle them regularly.
Here's to stay at home moms. I'm open to advise and helps and stories. I need that good ole supprt system.
Thanks!
Sunday, October 25, 2009
Saturday Night
So Bailey started her day out about 9:00 am, not unusual but she was at the Ranch with Grandmwah and PawPaw. She did not take a nap at all, I'm talking like nothing, zilch, nada, zero, nine, NONE all day. We got in the car to go to dinner and she finally fell asleep right before we got there, this is already almost 6:00 PM. (I don't consider this a nap even though she woke up shortly after b/c this should have been her bed time that day) Anyway, she woke up, we ate dinner, we went to Walmart, we drove back (with Bailey crying and screaming the whole way) to the Ranch and it all went wacky from there.
Bailey was SO excited to be back. We put her on the floor with the new puppy Fiona and they rolled around licking eachother for a few minutes, both being a little weird. Then Bailey got up and was just running everywhere. She is still new to the WALKING thing so running was a site to see. She would throw her arms behind her making her look very arrow dynamic and just start going. This would cause her to fall several times and since at this points she is very tired and out of sorts, she would try to get up but it resultred in a lot of time with her head by the ground and her butt all up in the air. I was laughing so hard to see her spinning in all sorts of circles, almost break dancing and doing barrel rolls all at the same time.
This went on for a good 15 minutes or so, she was more hyper than I have ever seen her to this point. She was so excited about something though, calming down was not inher plans. Changing her diaper was like roping a calf, I was sweaty by the end of that adventure.
Anyway, all that to say, it was interesting. We are still experiencing new things all the time with that girl. I'm sure there will be many more stories to come.
Friday, October 9, 2009
Walk it out!
Bailey has decided that today is the day she wants to walk instead of crawl. She still has a ton of plops but she instead of crawling, she gets back up and takes more steps still it happens again. She is a goofy little tyke and we love her. Hope this is funny too you, sorry about the hysterical laugh in the background. I'm a mom and I think my kid is awesome.
Sunday, October 4, 2009
snuggle time
Bailey is turing one at the end of the month and with that time approaching so quickly, I'm having to pinch myself, I'm in denial that it really could have been a year ago since this all went down.
So Bailey is back to her normal self, feeling well and definitely NOT snuggling anymore. She is walking more and more everyday, exploring new things and making me laugh A LOT. Yes, I realize I have been using a lot of caps lock in this post but hey, I'm SO emphatic about these things.
Monday, September 28, 2009
50 years!
Happy life of Marrige Grandma and Grandpa!! (it's been longer than 50 years now so I can say that to encompass the last few days as well)
I'm having a hard time imagining what I may be like in 25 years when I hit my 50th birthday or what Josh and I will be like in 46 years at our 50th anniversary but I pray that it is something great. I hope our story is one that not only looks good to our kids and grandkids but to those we see and interact with on a day to day basis. I pray that our marriage points people to Christ and that we model to those we meet what Holy Matrimony is. We fail, and horribly at times but by Gods grace we get back up and I hope our legacy shares that story as well.
Sunday, September 13, 2009
Weekend Fun
Saturday night..... I worked till 3:15, Josh worked till 10, I napped, we went to pick up Bailey from my parents real late.
Sunday.... invite a friend to church day, we brought Kassy and Corbit, they really seemed to enjoy themselves. Lunch was good, then we played ERS and the "word association game" ha ha. After that, we went to walmart, cooked dinner for my parents and hung out with them for a while.
Sucessfull weekend I would say.
Wednesday, September 9, 2009
Books Galore
I am also reading 3 other books right now, you know, one for the bathroom, one before bed and the other whenever I feel like it.
I am reading Grace gone Wild which I am enjoying. It's so far about Grace and not using it as a go a head and sin ticket, and it's not something we earn either... hard to explain with out being very far into the book.
Another book I am reading is Crazy Love. I started it a while back but now that our youth group is doing some sermon series based on it I figured I should pick it back up.
The third book is called Sexy Girls: How Hot is Too Hot? A good book to read when dealing with teenage girls. Is it OK to dress sexy? What is the difference in Sexy and Stylish and Attractive? These are questions we will be answering. I'm wondering if this is a book written by a man under a girls name.
I'm still loving my church, meeting new people all the time, getting to know some better than others but loving it nonetheless. I am getting to know the youth girls I am working with a little better and it's making things so much more fun. They are great and I really enjoy meeting with them as well as teaching them. We are high schoolers now and it's a whole new world. I say we because I moved up with these girls who were in 8th grade last year so we together have made the transition to High School and oh what a different world it is. I'm totally excited about it though and can't wait to REALLY get in with the girls. God is going to do some stinking radical things in their lives and I'm looking forward to all that may entail.
For those of you "keeping up with us" through this blog from far away places, we love you and miss you and I'm sorry I don't do a very good job at keeping you up to date and more a part of our everyday lives.
Ummm other news.... we are watching the Cosby show season one, disk two right now for fun. Josh and I have gotten to go one a few dates lately that have kept our love fresh and kickin'.
I have still been enjoying cooking although I have not blogged about any of that lately, my creative juices have not been bursting out as of late.
OK, I'm out!
Bye
Baby Baby
Sunday, August 23, 2009
Busy week

Tuesday, August 4, 2009
My stupid mouth....
I have great friends that are most patient for sure. Every time I hang up the phone or get done "chatting" with someone I feel it. I have once again dominated the conversation. I can't shut up. I want to be a good listener and to some degree I think I am but it must come across to other people as being a know it all and "she can't even wait till I'm done talking to say something else"
I am totally convicted by this.... Brenda, be quiet, let others speak, you will learn a lot. Brenda, be quiet, let God speak to you. Brenda, be quiet, listen and let others share their burdens. Brenda, shut your mouth and don't make this awkward, you don't know everything.
I've always been a talker. I can go on for days probably and I most likely sound stupid for the ways I can go around in circles, most likely contradicting myself at every bend.
This is not being mean to myself or feeling "condemned" but just a writen reminder to put others first, that even means in conversation. Be selfLESS, realize my stories aren't always the best ones. Let other's wisdom fall on me. Let me learn from lives of friends, parents, coworkers and the like.
The end.
Sunday, July 26, 2009
Games
Ok just kidding. This blog post is basically about games. As far as I can remember, I have always liked games, I used to play Mill Bornes at one grandparents house, yhatzee at another and Agrivation at my great grandparents house. Those are some very early childhood memories. Even now I like games, this week alone I got to play several. God has blessed Josh and I with friends that also enjoy games. Good clean fun. Today I played Hillarium, Things and Settlers of Catan. Josh played Snorta, Hit or Miss and Settlers of Catan. Earlier this week we played Taboo, monopoly, skip bo, Bust, and well does tickle fight count as a game? With an 8 month old I think so!!
So that was my blog, it's about games. I like games. So what if it sounds like a paragraph written by a 3rd grader on things she likes.
Good night.
Tuesday, July 7, 2009
Played Settle-ers tonight. Totally won the first game got clobbered the second time. I just feel bad beating people at their own games you know....Kidding, beginners luck I guess is what they call it.
Bailey came to visit me at work today. Well, Josh brought her in when he graced me with a drink from Sonic. She is beautiful and her smile brightens my day. She does new funny things like sniffing like a dog or something. I keep thinking she is trying to snot all over my face but Josh says its just being cute. Who knows... She also SCREAMS really really loudly. That part is not so cute as it is painful to the ear drums but still she's my daughter and I love her. How do you teach an 8 month old? What disciplines are too much? She's screaming in excitment most of the time and she doesn't know what an "inside voice" is.... hmmm I guess we'll be working on that.
OK I am out.